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星星， just call me kevin,single,26.i'm from malaysia. i'm glad to find this website, you know, i just feel like the only way to be myself is to visit your site. i'm very proud of you that you are able to come out. but for me, no,and no way for me to do it...you know, i live in islamic country,and homosexuality is strictly prohibited here;jailed if caught ...i feel so sad, hopeless, because of not being able to express my feeling to the man i like...i know that there are a lot of gay men out there, who are also looking for love...but i just can't open my heart for that, i'm too scare to loose...i'm the eldest son in my family and there are putting a lot of hopes on me,they never know this and they are hoping i can get married some day. i read a lot of q and a from your site,but i still found that to do is not as easy as you talk, my situation is making me almost crumble, can you imagine how suffering i am for keeping my feeling inside ? i'm not sure it would be exploded some day...should i leave this country, in order to find my love some where in the corner of the world?

hi kevin: i fully understand your situation. i have several gay friends living in malaysia. while i always encourage people to come out, i never said it was easy. i am fully aware that in many parts of the world, coming out means consequences ranging from ostricization from friends and family, to criminal prosecution. in the case of malaysia, i am afraid that the best course for you is to leave the country if possible. the danger you face is very real. however, i would encourage you to contact some other gay malaysians to exchange information. the situation is not the same all over malaysia. it might be that you can go to another city in the country where things are better than where you are now. i am glad you've written. many people in china have great fear about coming out. i think it's good for them to know that what they face is nowhere near as severe as in some other countries.